"I get manipulated by people I don't get along with...how can I keep them at a distance?" We will answer such worries. When you get manipulated by people you don't get along with, it is often the case that you think of them as an important person. The other person is someone you don't care about. There is no need to take their opinion into consideration. How can you leave them alone? How can you not be influenced? We will give you some hints like that. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Free registration will deliver comforting words at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as an affable lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.medy.jp/p/6e19aa3... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:47 ① Don't let them appear in your drama02:39 ② Don't make them an important person04:50 ③ People you don't get along with are unimportant06:55 ④ Don't take their opinions into consideration09:29 ⑤ Just someone from work or a neighbor12:59 ⑥ Basically, ignore them15:19 ⑦ Communicate calmly17:27 Summary: What we especially want you to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ----- Exclusive videos that answer the concerns of families and couples, all available to watch + receive words of inspiration every day Click here for YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to try living a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ーーCocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, you will learn how to improve your self-esteem (self-affirmation), and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It is a hybrid community of learning and exchange that can be used by those who have somehow failed in relationships. Various events and weekly radio live shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various content is available, such as limited live shows, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please use it if you want to consult Ryota about your worries. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations that are not related to HSPs...work or family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. ーーDetails and registration here↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Won 1st place in the MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Won 1st place in the MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[The power to live appropriately] 7 ways of thinking to live as yourself, which will drastically reduce the discomfort of life / Reduce the restrictions and constraints you place on yourself • [The power to live appropriately] 7 ways of thinking to live as yourself, which will drastically reduce the discomfort of life /... ●[Lurking all around you] 7 characteristics of young people with low mental maturity who attack out of frustration / What type are common among family and friends? • [Lurking all around you] 7 characteristics of young people with low mental maturity who attack out of frustration / Family and... ●[Good news] 7 things to try for people who are being taken advantage of / Put an end to relationships that are just about giving your all today! • [Good news] 7 things to try for people who are taken advantage of / Today, develop a relationship where you are simply giving your all... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles to read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of various diagnostic tests for HSPs: "The three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archive version] Things to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing / What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself too hard? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate technique for working alone. When you're having trouble with your relationships, try living like an "affable lone wolf". What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. During college, he took courses in healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. (Degree: Arts) He is also a strong HSP himself, and has experienced five job changes and relationship problems. He has multiple titles, including mental psychology counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. ・Operates "HSP Textbook" with the aim of providing consultation services and lifestyle information for HSPs. ・Published books by a total of four companies, including KADOKAWA and SB Creative. ・Operates "Cocoiro Salon", a community for HSPs, and is currently holding various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament and a psychological term that describes people who are highly sensitive to the environment. (For better or worse, they are easily influenced by the environment.) Just because you are HSP does not mean that you are "difficult to live" or "something". In addition, this channel is only about talking about your problems from an advisor's perspective, with the aim of solving your problems. Please be aware of this. Please also take a look at the channel description. #People I don't like #Relationships #Life