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Subscribe to the RTVI Telegram channel: https://t.me/rtvimain In the RTVI studio, Marianna Minsker and psychologist Ilya Shabshin talked about how to learn to hear each other. Why is it sometimes difficult for us to understand another person? How are we used to listening and why do we do it ineffectively? Why are we desperately trying to come to an agreement, but always on our own terms? Why do we attribute our motives to others? What should you do if you get upset during an argument? And is it normal to return to discussing the same issue if it seems like there is no progress? Subscribe to @RTVItainment and like RTVI News — all the main events in a 24/7 format: / myrtvi 00:00 “We need to talk.” Dialogue with a partner 01:32 “It is difficult to hear another person” 04:05 How to understand the love language of another? 08:00 "I want to negotiate with you, but on my terms" 10:31 How do we listen? 11:40 Why is it important not to interrupt? 17:00 Is it possible to convince your partner? 19:43 "You're driving me crazy!": how to deal with irritation and yelling? 25:40 How do we attribute our motives to others? 32:52 What to do if you get upset during an argument? 41:02 Step-by-step guide on how to conduct a dialogue with your partner 51:51 "If the issue is difficult, it is perfectly normal to discuss it a second and third time"