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Sign up for the first center for emotional development in Brazil: https://amorespossiveis.love/plataforma/ Love should be seen as a way of life. And to that end, I developed a safe and delightful methodology to follow, based on psychology, psychoanalysis, neuroscience and mindfulness. It's practically the Harvard of love - a center with content for all the pillars of love, emotional support programs, workshops... always new things to help you with all your relationship issues. This is THE PLACE to connect with the best content, transform love into daily action and learn how to create more meaningful and happy relationships. Right off the bat, you'll have access to 4 AMAZING courses, with over 70 super complete classes, full of exercises based on my methodology. In addition, there will be live workshops every month with experts you love and you'll be able to ask questions, you'll have access to a BEAUTIFUL community, full of interested and interesting people like you, where I'll also recommend books, series and movies about love and there will be live discussions about them. I will also give you practical tools to start transforming your love life. And the content will be updated. But I know that what people ask me for the most is the EMOTIONAL SUPPORT PROGRAM. And yes, it will happen. I will help you personally, together with a group of open-hearted people to exchange experiences. A support and emotional growth group like you've never seen before! For everyone to open up, heal and transform. There is no way to apply everything that is in Amores Possíveis.Love and not get results. Because everything is based not only on personal experiences, but on 20 years of study, research and serious work with real people! You are one step away from transforming your love life. I'm waiting for you at Amores Possíveis.Love. https://amorespossiveis.love/plataforma/ _____ We act like we're okay with it, but as soon as passion hits, the old dilemma begins: do I talk about my feelings or do I play that little game so as not to seem too available? Is holding back and keeping your schedule busy with other things a game or emotional intelligence to win over your crush? Relationship coaches make a lot of money selling ready-made conquest formulas and recipes for what to do to make someone fall in love with you. Among the techniques, strategies often come up such as taking hours to respond; pretending to have a busy schedule when in fact you could go out or giving the impression that you are being hit on by other people. The good old game. But is this the best way to win someone over? We don't think so. Contrary to what many relationship coaches propagate, there is no point in posting photos with other people or taking a long time to respond. Showing disinterest may even work with crushes who are used to chasing after those who don't want them, but it can drive away more settled crushes who will understand that you are not that interested. At the same time, opening up completely and making declarations of love after the first date also does not seem to be the best strategy. Many people are very thirsty and needy and end up sending many messages a day, always being available and already in the first week you start wanting to introduce your crush to your friends, family, people at work... that's scary too, right? How can we understand and use emotional intelligence and strategy in this phase of conquest without it being synonymous with ready-made formulas and false disinterest? To shed some light on this tricky situation, we've brought psychologist Marcos Lacerda, from the Nós da Questão channel, once again. Marcos will talk about the Big Bad Wolf syndrome: don't devour the person you're flirting with. But he won't do Lady Gaga's 100% Poker face either because it's too boring! We have to learn to control our anxiety and also our gambling side. To understand what this balance point is, to receive very practical tips so that we don't go all out on our crush, join us in this live. Let's learn how to be less anxious and not be taken over by emotions? Oh, to warm up the conversation, tell us: Have you ever tried to play a game and it went wrong? What did you try to do? And on the other extreme, have you ever felt anxious and suffocated your friend? What did you do? And if you want to see our first live with Marcos about AFFECTIVE DEPENDENCE: • AFFECTIVE DEPENDENCE: HOW TO IDENTIFY... And of course, follow his channel for yesterday NÓS DA QUESTÃO / @nósdaquestão