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Sign up for a consultation: https://taplink.cc/nbulaeva_psy Bulaeva Natalia - clinical psychologist Cognitive-behavioral therapy, crisis psychotherapy. Experience since 2021. Individual psychotherapy, working with crisis states My website https://taplink.cc/nbulaeva_psy Instagram @roksa.psyblog 0:00 - Introduction 1:19 - Traumatic experience built closeness in avoiders 2:22 - Nuance #1: it will take a lot of time. When does it make sense to seek contact with an avoider? 4:23 - It's important to choose a real person, not a fantasy 5:26 - You won't be able to "save" him 7:02 - About the psychological defenses of avoiders 8:19 - The main line of building relationships with an avoider 9:19 - Who finds it easier to get along with an avoider 12:39 - Nuance #2: no manipulation 14:41 - Nuance #3: what does trying to "catch up" with and control avoiders lead to 17:00 - Nuance #4: don't take it personally 18:28 - Nuance #5: your boundaries and feelings are important too 20:36 - Nuance #6: stability, calmness and acceptance 23:23 - How to constructively respond to "tests" from avoiders 26:05 - Nuance #7: open dialogue is doubly important here 28:42 - This type is not suitable for relationships for everyone, and it's normal 30:27 - Is it possible to have a good relationship with an avoidant?