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#psychology #psychologyofchildren Psychologist Alexander Kolmanovsky talks about the basic property of the psyche -- self-acceptance. Self-acceptance is laid down in childhood. Negative self-acceptance is formed under the influence of censure and punishment from parents. Positive self-acceptance is developed in a child when a parent reacts to any of his mistakes with sympathy, acceptance, support. For example, a child broke a cup. What is the parent's reaction? The first option: to get alarmed, to yell (the child himself was scared, and then the parent makes the situation even worse) -- this is how negative self-acceptance is formed. The second option: to pity, to console -- "are you hurt?" -- is the way to form positive self-acceptance in a child. Thus, children should not be scolded and punished entirely for practical reasons -- so as not to deform their personality, not to make them people with negative self-acceptance. various strategies of communication with a child, their influence on his development, about the roles of mother and father in raising a child. How to raise a child to be a harmonious and self-confident individual.