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Rafa Guerrero is a psychologist expert in Educational Psychology, ADHD, learning disorders and behavioral problems, as well as Brief Psychotherapy with children and adolescents, clinic and trauma intervention through EMDR. He runs Darwin Psicólogos, a reference center in Madrid specialized in emotional management problems, trauma, attachment and ADHD. Buy his latest book 'Trauma' here: https://amzn.to/3TYwlcs —Do you want to collaborate with the channel?— ⭐️ Become a member: / @loquetudigas ???? Donations: https://paypal.me/loquetudigas —Podcast— Listen to the episodes hours before they are on YouTube by subscribing to the podcast on Spotify (https://spoti.fi/3YY2iTD) and Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/45eIJbD). —Links— Follow the podcast on... Facebook: / lqtdradio Twitter: / lqtdradio Instagram: / lqtdradio TikTok: / lqtdradio Follow Alex on... Twitter: / alex_fidalgo Instagram: / alexfidalgo Email: [email protected] 00:00 - The worlds and dynamics in therapy 07:45 - We know our traumas and why we avoid them 11:35 - Is it a lie that we had a happy childhood? 13:24 - Drugs are not the problem. 18:00 - Why do traumas come to light that we didn't remember we had? 27:23 - In what environment does abuse occur? 29:18 - Why is it important to have dinner as a family? 32:00 - Adults Who Have Thrive Despite Their Traumas 38:48 - Mistakes in attributing emotions to your children 45:43 - Traumas that are unlocked by having children 48:05 - How not to be paranoid with your children. 50:20 - What we are dedicated to today has to do with your childhood 57:04 - How does having a bad therapist affect you? 59:32 - Symptoms that something is happening with your child 01:02:37 - The first cause of stress in our lives 01:04:04 - How do adult relationships influence children? 01:11:10 - Overprotection can kill. 01:18:23 - Keeping promises and being patient in the processes with your children 01:21:53 - Because we must be at the service of the infant. 01:27:27 - The only ways for a child to ask for attention! 01:34:00 - We must take responsibility for children's conflicts. 01:38:49 - Bullying does not end at school 01:42:55 - Alerts that bullying is taking place 01:44:35 - It is important for children to be able to express themselves. 01:46:30 - Love your children regardless of their achievements. 01:50:06 - Protect those who suffer from bullying 01:55:23 - Activate protection protocols against bullying 01:57:31 - The subjects that we lack in schools 02:03:57 - Connect and help - Closing