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Family relations specialist Elena Novoselova talks about the modern family and the work of a psychologist today. Why is it often difficult for women to answer the question: what does she want for herself? When did men start going to psychotherapists? Why did they start calling absolutely everything trauma and is it right? Why can't any psychology give you absolute serenity in life? What is the psychological difference between people of different generations who come to her? And how did Elena herself overcome the shock of her husband leaving? About the sources of male confusion and the winner's complex, about the defensive reactions that we do not choose, and about the possibility of getting out of the most difficult emotional states. 00:00 teaser 01:18 Life in the world of victorious psychology 04:29 Millennials on the baby boomer's couch 07:31 On the heightened experience of trauma 09:16 A turning point in attitudes towards marriage 11:17 Living apart as a way to save a family 13:58 What is the difference between sincerity and frankness 16:37 Life hack: the main ways to improve relationships 19:10 How tenderness can replace sex 22:09 Novoselova as the main defender of men 25:13 Why do we need men's consultations? 32:01 When to feel sorry and when to leave 34:47 How a man gets a mistress 38:52 Why prostitutes are better than mistresses 40:35 How many times a year is normal? 43:06 How Novoselova worked in a brothel 46:58 Who has a harder time surviving a divorce 50:02 How not to die after a divorce: personal experience 58:28 Life hack: how to quickly increase self-esteem #Psychology #Divorce #ElenaNovoselova