Mosquitoes don't get caught in a closed mouth! Check out 6 things you shouldn't tell anyone to be happier! #1 – Your big goals When you tell everyone about your goals, a lot of very inconvenient things can happen. This can range from someone copying your idea to attracting a lot of negative comments that can undermine your goals. So why would you keep attracting this kind of thing? It's much better for people to see what you've done than for you to keep telling them what you're going to do. #2 – Your good deeds There's a very wise teaching that says that when we help someone, we shouldn't let our left hand know what our right hand did. If you talk about your good deeds with the intention of coming off as a hero, this good becomes more of a "benefit" for yourself than for the people you say you're helping. #3 – Personal life at work We Brazilians have the habit of mixing our personal and professional lives a lot, but that's not cool. Let your colleagues know some things about your personal life, OK, because you don't need to hide anything. But opening up too much about your life is not good. When you do this, it gives the gossipers on duty something to talk about, so, go away! #4 – How much do you earn? Saying how much you earn can bring a series of problems, especially when you are an employee. I almost lost my job once when I trusted a colleague who asked me how much I earned and I told her. Since she earned less and thought she should earn much more, she spread the word to the entire department that I had thrown in her face that my salary was higher and the proof that I had done this is that she knew exactly how much I earned! My boss found out and only didn't fire me because the colleague had a reputation for gossiping... #5 – Your secrets and those of others Some people say that they were “forced” to tell someone else's secret because a friend insisted and because they wanted to help, etc. You know what? That's just bullshit! You can say that it's hard to get out of this awkward situation, that you'll lose the friendship and so on... But in reality, it's very easy: you can't tell anyone a secret that isn't yours! The secret is the other person's and, if they want, they can tell, not you! And as for your secrets, remember this phrase: "You are the master of what you don't say and the slave of what you say." Do you want to be a slave? No, right? #6 – Your weaknesses and difficulties Some people love to praise their weaknesses. They love to say that they can't be punctual, that they don't know how to deal with the public, that they talk too much, that they have no control over their work, that they are messy, etc. And my question is: what do you gain from this? You are just giving ammunition to the gossipers on duty! . For more content, visit my blog: https://bolsablindada.com.br/ . To purchase my BOOKS on PERSONAL FINANCE and ENTREPRENEURSHIP, click on this link: https://bolsablindada.com.br/shop/ . All of the books purchased in the online store will be autographed! :) . BOOKS: Bolsa Blindada Bolsa Blindada 2 Virada Financeira A woman's place is wherever she wants it to be Success doesn't fit in a purse. Follow me on social media: . Instagram: /patricialagesoficial . Facebook: /bolsablindada . Thanks for watching!