???? Take part in the free program "Love for yourself" from Assol - https://bit.ly/3P7HxC1 What are codependent relationships? How do they manifest themselves? Who is an abuser? How do childhood experiences and relationships with parents affect what kind of partners we choose? How to properly separate from parents? How to understand that you are in a destructive relationship? And how to learn to leave where you feel bad? In this episode of the talk show "What (NOT) Women Talk About", psychologist Marina Muravyova and blogger Karina Cross will help you understand the topic of destructive relationships. And the heroine Varvara will openly share the story of her codependent relationship, which almost cost her life. Watch the episode to the end and share your stories in the comments. What women (NOT) talk about: 00:00 ― Topic of the episode: codependent relationships: what they are and how to get out of them 01:50 ― What is a codependent relationship 02:58 ― Romance or codependency. The First Warning Sign of a Codependent Relationship 05:30 ― Is a Codependent Attracted to an Aggressor 06:25 ― Karina Cross: “I Was an Abuser” 08:18 ― Varvara Nazarova: “When I Faced Myself, I Was Horrified” 08:42 ― Varvara Nazarova: “I Chose Those Who Definitely Wouldn’t Love Me” 09:04 ― Karina Cross’s Relationship Story 09:50 ― A Subscriber’s Story 12:20 ― To Start Solving a Problem, You Need to Admit That You Have One 15:33 ― How Relationships with Your Mother Can Influence Your Choice of Men 16:05 ― Varvara Nazarova: “My Mother Thinks the Main Thing Is to Have a Perfect Picture” 16:33 ― Guilt Often Prevents break off destructive relationships 17:32 ― Who is an abuser. Answer from psychologist Marina Muravyova 17:57 ― Karina Cross about her codependency 22:45 ― The most important thing is to decide that this does not suit me 25:25 ― In codependent relationships, guilt and shame win 26:20 ― Varvara's escape from the abuser and return to the relationship. What happened 29:25 ― Varvara Nazarova: "He said: "I'll kill you" and went into the room to take the axe off the wall" 31:13 ― Varvara Nazarova: "I chained myself to the radiator so as not to see him" 32:43 ― Victims of abuse are in fear: few people believe them and they are threatened 34:54 ― Condemning the victim can drive her into even greater depression 37:33 ― Separation from parents and childhood experience. How and what to do 42:25 ― Varvara Nazarova's scheme for getting out of codependent relationships 44:23 ― Loving yourself = knowing yourself. The game "Robinson Crusoe" by Varvara Nazarova, which helps to know yourself 46:27 ― A real story of a subscriber: "Only you can make yourself leave" 48:09 ― Karina Cross: "The main step is to understand what I DO NOT want." 50:35 ― Relationships cannot be your whole life. Self-diagnosis of yourself in a relationship from psychologist Marina Muravyova 52:44 ― Conclusions of the Assol program in social networks: Instagram — / assol13 Telegram — https://t.me/radioassol Heroines in social networks: Karina Cross — / karinakross Marina Muravyova — / murmaripari Varvara Nazarova — / varvara.nazarova The Meta company was recognized as an extremist organization and its activities were banned in Russia #assol #what_women_don't_talk_about #codependentrelationships #relationships #abuse