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Sleeping in your parents' room, is it okay? Understand how this attitude can influence your child's behavior. GETTING STRAIGHT TO THE POINT: 00:00 Start 01:32 Building the behavior of a child who sleeps with their parents 05:06 The symbolism of the couple's bedroom 13:14 The symbolism of the child's bedroom Before continuing, if you are not yet registered, take advantage and register: https://bit.ly/Youtube-AbarcaPsicologo Want to talk to me? Access my WhatsApp: https://bit.ly/Whatsapp-AbarcaPsicologo Something that seemed to be a habit that families had already overcome, is still a thorn in the side of family members who do not know how to act when faced with their children's tantrums, especially those at bedtime. Right after birth, the child brings a feeling of fragility, hence the need for overprotection, and one of them is to place the baby next to the couple's bed. However, time passes and the child is still in the parents' bedroom, with the possibility of the child suffocating due to his/her own reflux, intestinal changes, and other reasons. Then comes the phase of night terrors and it is very common to see children taking over their parents' bedroom even in adolescence. However, this habit can be harmful to the emotional health of the family. In a family, we have the construction of identity roles, father, mother, son, daughter, marital couple, siblings... When parents allow their children to take over the couple's bedroom, they are establishing the break of identification of roles, which can generate difficulty in living the limits based on the roles. Another factor is the fragility of showing children the ability to overcome the limits that life itself imposes, such as finding themselves alone at night. There are many negative elements that arise as a result of children sleeping in their parents' bedroom. Here I want to present at least one more factor, which is the construction of insecurity in the child's personality structure. Therefore, one alternative is to understand the family dynamics and, based on this perception, find ways to act to guide the child towards full development. Then, parents need to ask themselves questions. Do they want their children to be autonomous, independent and successful citizens in the future as adults? Then, put the children in their own room from the moment they arrive home, while they are still babies. We know that when it comes to raising children, there is no standardization of right or wrong. Right and wrong are directly associated with the choices I make, what kind of children I want to see in the future, and what family structure I believe in. #abarcapsicologo #childpsychology #familypsychology #sleepinginparentsroom #sleepingwithparents #psychoanalysis ========================================================================= Check out the Playlist: Child Psychology - • Child Development Psychology... Contextualized Psychoanalysis - • Paternity and Psychoanalysis ========================================================================= Check out the text on which the video was based: Article: The child who sleeps in the parents' room (https://abarcapsicologo.com.br/?226/a...) ========================================================================= Did you like the video? Leave your like. Contribute with your comment! Want to talk to me? Access my Whatsapp: https://bit.ly/Whatsapp-AbarcaPsicologo My presence in other media: Website: https://abarcapsicologo.com.br Facebook page: / abarcapsicologo Instagram: / abarcapsicologo Twitter: / abarcapsicologo Leave suggestions of topics related to the area of Psychology that you want to follow here on the Abarca Psicólogo channel. A big hug and see you next time.