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Christine Calonne, psychologist psychotherapist, describes in this video how the nervous system of the child of an individual with a narcissistic perverse profile is impacted by repeated micro-violence in this controlling relationship. S. Porges states that the nervous system of a subject communicates with the nervous system of another. In the event of insecurity, survival mechanisms manifest themselves through fight, flight or freezing until submission and traumatic dissociation. It is the transgenerational transmission of trauma that creates an insecure attachment bond. This impacts the body, emotions, thoughts and behaviors. Healing the relationship with your child consists of identifying their survival mechanisms, their fears in order to appease them. Learning to feel your bodily limits facilitates learning the ability to set healthy limits. Developing the ability to identify, transform your sensations, your emotions, your cognitive biases facilitates the creation of a feeling of security in the attachment relationship. To learn more, you can read "The Art of Resilience", ed. Ellipses, col. 100 questions/answers, to be published on 02/28/25. You can also visit www.psychotherapie-calonne.be.