[Sources] - The Upasakaya Sutra (No. 1488, translated by Donmuzan ) in Vol. 24 "There are three types of fields of merit in this world: 1) fields of gratitude; 2) fields of merit; and 3) fields of poverty. Fields of gratitude are so-called parents, teachers, and elders. Fields of merit are those who obtain warmth and even attain Anuttara-samyak-sambodhi. Fields of poverty are all people who are poor, suffering, or in distress." - The Diamond Perfection of Wisdom Sutra (No. 0235, translated by Kumarajiva ) in Vol. 08 "Bodhisattvas should not give alms without regard for their appearance. Why do bodhisattvas not give alms without regard for their appearance? Their merits are inconceivable." - Other excerpts from the Sutta Nipata, Vinaya Pitaka, etc. ===== Even if you are kind to people, if they betray or use you, have you ever found yourself thinking, "I will never be kind to people again?" From such experiences, many people may be troubled by the thought that "even if I give, I don't get anything in return." In this article, we will explore the answer to this difficult question through the teachings of Buddhism. Let's learn about the wisdom of discerning who to give to from the story of the Merciful Prince and the False Beggar, and the story of the Neighbor-loving Farmer. The Buddha's teachings teach that it is important to discern who to give to. It is important to have the insight to discern whether the person is truly in need of help, or whether you can treat them with a pure heart of giving. And after discerning the other person, it is important to continue giving to the appropriate person without expecting anything in return. This is because pure giving without expecting anything in return frees us from selfish desires and helps us grow into truly compassionate people. The practice of giving may not be rewarded immediately. However, through giving, we can surely grow into people with a rich heart. Why don't you also develop the ability to discern who to give to and continue giving without expecting anything in return? ================================================================================================== ????Amazon Audiobooks - Professional narrators will read books to you. - Now with a 30-day free trial period. You can cancel at any time, so we recommend it. ????https://amzn.to/44cIm1N ==================================== Recommended books ================================= ????Words of the Buddha to read when life is tough https://amzn.to/3QclpWQ ????Easy to read every day (It's in a format similar to a daily calendar. Short, deep stories are summarized compactly every day. The size is just right and I recommend it ????) The Teachings of the Buddha: One Story a Day by Alabomulle Sumedha (author) https://amzn.to/4b7crSq ????Recommended for beginners: An Easy Introduction to Buddhism that Anyone Can Understand by Ishida Kazuhiro (author) https://amzn.to/4aOD0MO ????A bestseller that makes it easy for anyone to learn the teachings of Buddha. Free for a limited time on Audible [with limited benefits] Practice not reacting: Buddha's ultra-rational "way of thinking" that will make all your worries disappear Ryushun Kusanagi (author) https://amzn.to/3w15cNh ????If you want to seriously learn Buddhism, the words of the Buddha: Sutta Nipata Gen Nakamura (author) https://amzn.to/3IXDweX ????Many humorous episodes Introduction to Buddhism by Gen Nakamura Gen Nakamura (author) https://amzn.to/3Qbm8Y8 ———————————————————————————————————— The teachings of Buddhism bring deep insight and peace to our lives. We have carefully selected wonderful books that anyone can learn from, from beginners to advanced. Please try to experience the wisdom of the Buddha through these books. ========================================= Recommended related videos ================================ • How to live a life without regrets Buddha's Teachings • All you need is the person you love Buddha's Teachings • How to make everything go well without worrying Buddha's Teachings ——————————————————————————————————— VOICEVOX:Aoyama Ryusei#Buddha'sTeachings #Buddha #Buddhism #BuddhaTeachings #Shakyamuni #Shakyamuni #Buddhism #Buddha #Giving #Compassion #Teachings #Wisdom #Human Relationships #Growth #Heart Richness