#emelozugur #oytunerbaş #adilyıldırım #sociology #sexualeducation #relationships 1:10 ???? The thing that drives women into depression in Turkey is sexuality! 6:50 ???? Everyone objects when it comes to fantasy! What happened, did storks bring us?! 16:50 ???? Adil and I are the assholes of society! 23:00 ???? In Turkish society, those who are successful and stand out are the ones who are successful despite being successful! Because there are many obstacles! 28:30 ???? Men determine their spouses according to the first woman they meet, their mothers! 34:00 ???? The people I am most afraid of are those who can fall in love with an imaginary hero! Very dangerous! 39:00 ???? If a child is different but retarded, it's over, if he is different but smart, it's over! 41:00 ???? I hate it when women act emotionally! 43:00 ???? Men see it, give up, women see it, say I can change it, and continue and suffer! 47:00 ???? If they do this, divorce rates will decrease by half! Today, I have two valuable guests. Prof. Dr. Oytun Erbaş and Adil Yıldırım. I can say that the second part of our interview is much more interesting. The social norms that shape the roles, behaviors and expectations of women and men in Turkish society create great pressure, especially regarding gender roles and sexuality. This pressure can deeply affect both the personal and emotional lives of individuals. Women's experiences within these social structures can make it difficult for them to cope with depression and emotional difficulties. When women are faced with the ideal sexuality and relationship expectations imposed by society, they can feel trapped and helpless. This situation can cause women to hesitate to talk openly about sexuality or express their own sexual desires. The tabooing of sexuality in society can force women to remain silent on this issue, further aggravating their emotional burden. This pressure can damage women's self-confidence and lead to psychological problems such as depression. In addition, it is possible for women in Turkish society to achieve success and stand out despite facing many difficulties. However, these difficulties are often magnified by social obstacles and barriers. In order to be successful, women have to overcome the traditional expectations of society and forge their own paths despite these expectations. Women who stand out and succeed in society usually face great resistance, but this resistance can make them even stronger. However, the emotional and psychological pressure they experience during this process can negatively affect women's mental health. When we look at it from the perspective of men, it can be observed that they prefer women who are similar to their mothers in choosing a spouse. This situation is related to the attachment men develop to the mother figure during their childhood. A man can use his relationship with his mother as a model in choosing a future spouse. This can cause men to follow certain patterns in emotional relationships and avoid going beyond these patterns. On the other hand, excessive admiration for imaginary heroes can be dangerous, especially for emotionally vulnerable individuals. This admiration can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointments. People preferring to live in the idealized world of imaginary heroes instead of dealing with the difficulties they face in the real world can lead to emotional imbalances and relationship problems. Being different in society is usually associated with an individual's intelligence. An intelligent individual is generally accepted and supported by society because they are different. However, if this difference is based on another characteristic rather than intelligence, the individual may be excluded from society. This situation can create a great emotional burden, especially for children. Children who are excluded because of their differences may feel lonely and misunderstood. This can negatively affect their emotional and social development. Women's emotional behaviors can sometimes be perceived as weakness by society. However, these emotional behaviors strengthen women's empathy and emotional intelligence. Even when they are emotionally challenged, women have an internal motivation to solve problems and help others. However, this emotional burden can negatively affect women's mental health over time and lead them to depression. It can be said that in order for divorce rates to decrease, couples need to communicate more openly and honestly with each other. A healthy relationship is based on mutual understanding, respect and empathy. By trying to understand each other's needs and feelings, couples can create a more solid foundation in their relationships. This can contribute to a decrease in divorce rates and to the establishment of healthier, happier relationships. We have an interview with Prof. Dr. Oytun Erbaş and Mentor - Author Adil Yıldırım that you should not miss. Now you will