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Behavioral Therapy Center "Coping is Easier" - https://handlingbetter.ru https://t.me/handlingbettercenter Karina https://t.me/istominakarina Natasha https://t.me/hadeout Maria Krivosheeva https://t.me/mashadoestherapychannel Team https://instagram.com/rndmcrew?igshid... The Meta company, which owns the social networks Facebook and Instagram, is recognized as extremist in the Russian Federation. Cooperation proposals [email protected] Support the channel https://www.donationalerts.com/r/spra... Timestamps 00:00 Intro 03:10 News 03:53 Why Natasha didn't want to get into a relationship 08:47 Avoidance at the beginning of a relationship 20:26 First conflicts 22:01 Does the fear of intimacy become less over time? 23:27 What Natasha realized in her new relationship 25:08 Compassion for the inner child 26:30 Absent fathers 27:56 “It’s hard to love me, I’m not made for relationships” 30:55 Anxious thoughts 32:18 Avoidance mechanisms 34:00 What is avoidance in relationships? We figure it out with an expert 37:11 Functions of behavior 41:41 Attachment styles 45:06 Avoidant behavior style 51:49 Why does vulnerability make you sick? 53:24 Anxious style 55:55 Autonomy and “I can do everything myself” 58:36 Core beliefs of avoidant people 1:00:14 Connection with mental disorders 1:01:09 Disorganized (anxious-avoidant) style 1:02:54 Why feelings disappear 1:04:28 Why it is difficult to trust and open up 1:06:00 Why look for flaws in a partner 1:09:22 “He chose me, something is wrong with him.” Where does this come from? 1:11:01 Love is painful. What to do? 1:14:14 Why it is difficult to express your needs 1:21:25 I want to run away. What to do? 1:25:00 Will avoidant attachment go away next to a reliable partner? 1:28:57 How should a partner of the avoidant type behave 1:33:02 Results