This program delves deeply into the characteristics of people with dirty hearts and the words they use. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: "Words are a mirror that reflect the heart" 01:00 The beginning of the story "The Thorns of Jealousy" 08:17 Explanation: Characteristics of people with dirty hearts 08:22 Feature 1: Not being able to be happy for other people's good deeds 08:54 Feature 2: Often speaking ill of others 09:26 Feature 3: Spreading unfounded rumors 09:52 Feature 4: Justifying their own bad behavior 10:21 Feature 5: Obsessing over past successes 10:50 Important points: Characteristics that everyone has 11:14 How to cleanse the dirt in your heart 14:23 Summary: "Words are a mirror of the heart" Key points explanation: 1. Not being able to be happy for other people's good deeds They use words like "He was just lucky" This is because they lack self-confidence 2. Often speaking ill of others They criticize others by saying things like "That person has no ability" They try to put others down and elevate themselves 3. Spreading unfounded rumors Spreading rumors like "That person is doing bad things behind the scenes" Because they are afraid to confront directly 4. Justifying their bad behavior Making excuses like "This is for you" Because they are afraid to confront their true feelings 5. Obsessing over past successes They often say "things were better in the old days" They run away from the past to avoid current anxiety The important thing is that everyone has these characteristics. No one is perfect. It is important to recognize and face the dirt in your heart. How to clean your heart: Observe your words and actions carefully Honestly acknowledge your emotions Try to understand the feelings of others Be grateful Use positive words One last thing to remember: "Words are a mirror of the heart." By being careful about the words you use every day and choosing constructive words, you can clean your heart and pave the way to a happy life. I hope that this video will give you an opportunity to look into your own heart. #Psychology #Self-improvement #Relationships == ... ????https://amzn.to/44cIm1N ==================================== Recommended books ================================= ????Words of the Buddha to read when life is tough https://amzn.to/3QclpWQ ????Easy to read every day (It's in a format similar to a daily calendar. Short, deep stories are summarized compactly every day. The size is just right and I recommend it ????) The Teachings of the Buddha: One Story a Day by Alabomulle Sumedha (author) https://amzn.to/4b7crSq ????Recommended for beginners: An Easy Introduction to Buddhism that Anyone Can Understand by Ishida Kazuhiro (author) https://amzn.to/4aOD0MO ????A bestseller that makes it easy for anyone to learn the teachings of Buddha. Free for a limited time on Audible [with limited benefits] Practice not reacting: Buddha's ultra-rational "way of thinking" that makes all worries disappear Ryushun Kusanagi (author) https://amzn.to/3w15cNh ????If you want to seriously learn Buddhism, the words of the Buddha: Sutta Nipata Gen Nakamura (author) https://amzn.to/3IXDweX ????Many humorous episodes Introduction to Buddhism by Gen Nakamura Gen Nakamura (author) https://amzn.to/3Qbm8Y8 ———————————————————————————————————— The teachings of Buddhism bring deep insight and peace to our lives. We have carefully selected wonderful books that anyone can learn from, from beginners to advanced. Please try to touch the wisdom of the Buddha through these books. VOICEVOX: Ryusei Aoyama #Buddha's teachings #Buddha #Buddhism #Buddhist teachings #Shakyamuni #Shakyamuni #old age #illness #death #suffering #Buddha #Buddhism #story #emotion #dialogue #desire #attachment #happiness #emotions #observation #life #way of life #story #human relationships #Zen #anxiety #peace of mind #sermon #training #nembutsu #gratitude #thank you #culture #buddhism