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We are afraid and do not like to talk about death. But when loved ones die, we become completely helpless and get lost, like children looking for real adults. Rarely does anyone talk to us about death. And this has been the case since childhood. We decided to fill in the gaps and talked to psychologist Larisa Pyzhyanova. For ten years, she headed the hotline of the Russian Emergencies Ministry. Now Larisa is a psychologist at a children's hospice. It seems that she knows everything about death. And she can talk about it without fear. 00:00 My work has been connected with death for 15 years 03:34 How Larisa came to this job 06:51 How does the Emergencies Ministry hotline work 08:19 What is the right way to comfort a person who has lost a loved one? 09:08 How should you not comfort? 11:22 What emergency situations have you worked on? 12:54 What helps a crisis psychologist not to go crazy? 14:51 Collapse of the barracks in Omsk 16:40 I have never heard such words of love that I heard in the morgue at any wedding 19:53 How do men cry? 21:16 The last straw - how Larisa left the Ministry of Emergency Situations 23:13 A story about morgue workers 25:38 Why is the topic of death taboo in Russia? 27:38 Larisa came to work at a children's hospice 29:32 What is it like to tell a child that he is going to die 32:58 About Tema, who smoked behind the garages 35:47 How to survive loss? 39:21 How to talk about death with children? 41:30 Should you take your child to a funeral? 44:31 Should you talk about death with the elderly? 47:25 I couldn't talk to my mother about her funeral 49:14 I will live as if my husband is on a business trip 52:11 Why Larisa has no fear of death 54:19 A ritual that helps to survive loss Subscribe to us on social networks: IG: / kollektiv_doc VK: http://vk.com/kollektiv_doc TG: https://t.me/kollektiv_doc