Get a sought-after profession and change your life with Skypro: https://go.skyeng.ru/strelets_skypro Promo code STRELETS10 gives 10% on all courses Find out more and rent out an apartment with the Yandex.Rent service at the link: https://clck.ru/ai2nJ The hero of the new issue is coach Albert Safin, who, unlike his colleagues, does not make money on information products, but publishes his work for free. In this interview, he will tell you how the technology of manipulation works, which is behind every high-profile video on YouTube and which we encounter every day in our daily lives. What is the psychology of a victim - and is the victim always innocent? Why is resentment a powerful tool of manipulation? And how should you react in order not to get hooked? Also in this issue - about the main books on psychology and their key theses, as well as a short but comprehensive set of rules on the psychology of success. 00:00 — In this episode 01:02 — How to react if someone is skeptical towards you? 02:30 — Who is Albert Safin? 05:02 — The main goal of coaching 05:57 — What prevents people from changing their lives for the better 07:47 — What does Albert make money on 08:22 — Why Albert Safin gave up making money on info products 09:09 — Advertising integration 11:24 — Why info gypsies are not the best background for a psychologist 12:37 — About info products on the topic of psychology. Why is it unacceptable for Albert to sell his courses and books 15:14 — What did Albert make money on before going into psychology? 16:03 — How Albert came to psychology from business 18:25 — Advertising integration 20:15 — "There is no shoemaker without shoes. A person cannot give what he himself does not live" 20:28 — The book that turned Albert's life upside down 20:52 — Games and manipulations that people play 24:14 — In what cases, for reasons of humanism, psychologists hide scientific knowledge 28:17 — About the main book on psychology and its main provisions 31:33 — Why do people like to watch stories about criticism, hate, exposures and other negativity online and on TV? 34:00 — Is the victim always innocent? The psychology of the persecutor and the victim 38:15 — Buzova and Guberniev. Who is the persecutor and who is the victim? 40:33 — An unexpected explanation of Olga Buzova's phenomenon 42:10 — What benefits do victims receive? 44:33 — Why being a victim is beneficial for gaining popularity? 45:31 — Why you shouldn't borrow money or lend money? 46:55 — What is manipulation? 47:20 — Why can't a manipulator and a victim break out of the vicious circle of toxic relationships? 48:16 — An example of how childhood trauma affects a person's future 50:10 — How manipulators drag you into relationships? 51:15 — Who most often becomes a victim? 52:55 — 3 signs of a healthy relationship 53:36 — Love and neurotic attachment. Why do we confuse them? 55:20 — Who are "aggressive victims" and why are they dangerous? 58:25 — How does switching occur according to the Karpman triangle? 1:00:58 — Why is resentment also manipulation? 1:02:09 — Signs of victim behavior 1:02:28 — Why should you never make excuses? 1:03:25 — About Sobchak's interview with Dud 1:06:34 — About Kandelaki's interview with Pozner 1:09:00 — About Morgenstern's interview with Dud 1:12:32 — About Lyudmila Maksakova's interview with Yulia Menshova 1:15:30 — About Labkovsky's interview with Shikhman 1:17:52 — "The attacker spends more effort than the defender" 1:19:17 — What is the danger of compliments 1:20:21 — Why it is better not to apologize 1:21:18 — What marriages most often break up 1:23:07 — The main rule of healthy relationships 1:25:02 — What is the difference between mother's and father's love 1:26:28 — About everyday manipulations in our lives 1:30:33 — What is the basis of the psychology of success 1:31:55 — Where to start to change your life? Nadezhda Strelets: Telegram — https://t.me/s/strelets_molodec Instagram* — / nadin_strelets Subscribe to the channel: / @nadinstrelets Albert Safin: YouTube — / AlbertSafin Instagram* — / albert.safin #AlbertSafin *belongs to Meta, recognized as extremist in Russia