"I feel like I'm being emotionally abused...I wonder if I have no choice but to put up with it." That's what most people worry about. There's no point in enduring emotional abuse. In fact, if you don't act quickly, the situation will only get worse. ・The other person will change someday・You'll end up thinking that there's something wrong with you, too. Emotional abuse is a controlling behavior. Let's think about it with this premise as the axis. We've talked about it in detail. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Free registration will deliver comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details available here: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of contents▼ 00:00 Today's theme00:39 ① You end up giving endlessly03:06 ② Control escalates05:40 ③ You start to be treated even less highly07:56 ④ People around you start to think less highly of you09:58 ⑤ They stop helping you13:18 ⑥ They don't change15:49 ⑦ They'll never love you18:23 Summary: What we especially want you to remember━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ - Exclusive videos that explain the worries of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of insight every day Click here to join YouTube membership▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to try living a little more loosely while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being swayed" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● [Be careful] The psychology of moral harassment and 3 ways to deal with it / People who control you with their virtues • [Be careful] The psychology of moral harassment and 3 ways to deal with it / People who control you with their virtues ● [Why? ] 7 reasons why your partner becomes cold after marriage / Has love disappeared, or... • [Why? ] 7 reasons why your partner becomes cold after marriage / Has love disappeared, or... ● [Caution] The hidden truth of people who can never love others / What is the cause lurking deep in their hearts? • [Caution] The hidden truth of people who can never love others / What is the cause lurking deep in their hearts? ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of various diagnostic tests for HSPs "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ● [Archival version] What you should try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ● The ultimate solo technique. When you have trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf". What is the secret to not making enemies, as taught by a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's social media accounts━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He has qualifications as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through more than 15 years of parallel work in manufacturing and lecturing, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, and now he is working as a writer and communicating mainly about troubles in human relationships. ●Click here for detailed profile https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about talking about your troubles from the perspective of a counselor and advisor with the aim of solving your troubles. Thank you for your understanding. Please also take a look at the channel description. #Relationships #Moral harassment #Psychology