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More and more often I hear from others that people don’t need people. People no longer want to invest in relationships: friendships, romance, work, or any other. Individualism and collectivism are two concepts that in some ways explain the trends in modern society. But also of great importance are upbringing and social norms, which are changing today. Keywords from the video: Self-sufficiency, uniqueness, autonomy, independence, privacy, unwillingness to take responsibility, border with egoism, degradation of society, loss of communication skills, excessive freedom flows into an unhealthy state, forgetting about traditions, not visiting each other, new norms - not calling without asking, sometimes feeling unsafe among people, declining moral standards, we think less about hurting a person, we measure everything by ourselves and evaluate the world from the side of our ego, working in a group, families and communities - a central role in the collectivism system, the desire to do the best for society, common goals matter, we can reveal ourselves, learn new things, develop new facets in ourselves, you need to delineate personal boundaries, it is important to know what you want from a relationship, not everyone needs children. What's in the video: 0:00 Why don't people want to have relationships? 0:54 Individualists - who are they? 3:40 How key human values disappear 4:42 Why it is important to observe traditions and how I do it 5:40 About safety and personal boundaries 6:34 Principles of collectivism 8:00 Why is it important to be among people? 8:52 How individualism negatively affected me 9:49 People are not ready to get attached to relationships 12:12 You can learn something from each person. How? 13:00 Child-free people 14:36 Opinion about introverts I am on Instagram: / ellinadaily Get mentoring from me, and also subscribe to the work-life balance newsletter here: / ellinadaily More about me and my services: http://ellinadaily.com. Useful links: Learn a foreign language from native speakers on the Italki website – follow the link to get 1 free lesson for free: http://promos.italki.com/ellina/ Discount up to €36 on your first AirBnb booking: https://goo.gl/I3GeQQ 50% discount on a trip with BOLT with the promo code ELLINAMDU (up to €3 per trip) WHO IS ELLINA DAILY? My name is Ellina and I am 29 years old at the time of filming this video. For 8 years, I worked in marketing and e-commerce in the corporate world. I have lived, studied and worked in Sweden, Denmark, Holland and Germany. I was born and raised in the Baltics. I speak 5+2 languages. On this channel, I share my experience of building a career in Europe. I talk about how to start working remotely and where to find remote work, what freelancing is and how to start working for yourself, what is better - freelancing or an office. I share my secrets of productivity and how to work more efficiently. I shoot videos about education abroad - how to enter a university, what specialty to choose, about the most popular professions. A separate video segment is for those who want to change their field of activity, but do not know where to start. I tell you what work-life balance is and how to find a balance between work and everyday life. I tell you how to quickly learn a foreign language. How to learn Russian, English, Estonian, German, French, Swedish, Danish, Turkish. I shoot videos about the Scandinavian lifestyle, life in Sweden, vlogs from Stockholm, about Scandinavian trends and minimalism, an eco-friendly lifestyle. Sometimes I also talk about life in Turkey, unusual places in Istanbul, non-touristy Istanbul. In general, this is a channel about self-development with a Nordic approach. ;) Camera Lumix G7, microphone - regular camera lavalier, editing in Final Cut Pro X.