In the blank spaces below, write about someone you haven't 100% forgiven yet. Don't write about yourself yet. Keep it short and simple. Please don't self-censor. Feel free to criticize as narrowly as you really feel. Don't try to be spiritual or generous. 1. Who is the person who makes you angry, sad, or disappointed? What don't you like about him or her? (Write harshly, childishly, and narrowly.) (Example: I am angry (sad, upset, etc.) because ________.) 2. How do you want that person to change? What do you want him or her to do? (Example: I want _________.) 3. What are some things (actions, attitudes, thoughts, feelings, etc.) that you think he or she should or should not do? (Example: 00 should (or should not) _____________ 4. What do you feel that the person needs to do? What could the person do for you to be happy? (Imagine that today is your birthday and you can have anything you want.) (Example: 00 needs to _____________) 5. What do you think of the person? Make a list (don't be rational or kind). (Example: 00 does ___________) 6. What do you never want to experience with the person again? (Example: I never want to (or will not) _________ again in the future) Please post the above on the 'Contact Us' bulletin board on the moktaksori.kr homepage privately, or write it down in an email and send it to [email protected]. I will not disclose your name, etc., and I will use some of the content during the Dharma service so that we can be free from suffering together and it can be helpful to others. If you are doing this alone, after writing the above text, ask yourself the four questions and try to reverse it. [Byron Katie's Four Questions] 1. Is that true? 2. Can you know for sure that it is true? 3. How do you react when you believe that thought? 4. If you didn't have that thought, who would you be? 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